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The remarkable thing is that we really love our neighbors as ourselves: we do unto others as we do unto ourselves. We hate others when we hate ourselves. We are tolerant of others when we tolerate ourselves. We forgive others when we forgive ourselves. We are prone to sacrifice others when we are ready to sacrifice ourselves.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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We are unified both by hating in common and by being hated in common.
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All prayers and hopes are a reaching-out for coincidences.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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To ripen a person for self-sacrifice he must be stripped of his individual identity and distinctness. He must cease to be George, Hans, Ivan or Tadao- a human atom with an existence bounded by birth and death. The most drastic way to achieve this end is by complete assimilation of the individual into a collective body. The fully assimilated individual does not see himself and others as human beings. When asked who he is, his automatic response is that he is a German, a Russian, a Japanese, a Christian, a Moslem, a member of a certain tribe or family. He has no purpose, worth and destiny apart from his collective body; and as long as that body lives he cannot really die.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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What are we when we are alone? Some, when they are alone, cease to exist.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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An empty head is not really empty; it is stuffed with rubbish. Hence the difficulty of forcing anything in to an empty head.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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Far more crucial than what we know or do not know is what we do not want to know. One often obtains a clue to a person's nature by discovering the reasons for his or her imperviousness to certain impressions.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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The untalented are more at ease in a society that gives them valid alibis for not achieving than in one where opportunities are abundant. In an affluent society, the alienated who clamor for power are largely untalented people who cannot make use of the unprecedented opportunities for self-realization, and cannot escape the confrontation with an ineffectual self.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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When we leave people on their own, we are delivering them into the hands of a ruthless taskmaster from whose bondage there is no escape. The individual who has to justify his existence by his own efforts is in eternal bondage to himself.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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When watching men of power in action it must be always kept in mind that, whether they know it or not, their main purpose is the elimination or neutralization of the independent individual- the independent voter, consumer, worker, owner, thinker- and that every device they employ aims at turning men into a manipulable "animated instrument" which is Aristotle's definition of a slave.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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It is not sheer malice that pricks our ears to evil reports about our fellow men. For there are frequent moments when we feel lower than the lowest of mankind, and this opinion of ourselves isolates us. Hence the rumor that all flesh is base comes almost as a message of hope. It breaks down the wall that has kept us apart, and we feel one with humanity.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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It is perhaps not entirely so, though it has often been said, that man makes his God in his own image. Rather does he create Him in the image of his cravings and dreams- in the image of what man wants to be. God making could be part of the process by which a society realizes its aspirations: it first embodies them in the conception of a particular God, and then proceeds to imitate that God. The confidence requisite for attempting the unprecedented is most effectively generated by the fiction that in realizing the new we are imitating rather than originating. Our preoccupation with heaven can be part of an effort to find precedents for the unprecedented.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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It needs some intelligence to be truly selfish. The unintelligent can only be self-righteous.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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To know a person's religion we need not listen to his profession of faith but must find his brand of intolerance.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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Laughter to begin with was probably glee at the misfortunes of others. The baring of the teeth in laughter hints at its savage ancestry. Animals have no malice, hence also no laughter. They never savor the sudden glory of Schadenfreude. It was its infectious quality that made of laughter a medium of mutuality.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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Animals can learn, but it is not by learning that they become dogs, cats, or horses. Only man has to learn to become what he is supposed to be.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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The central task of education is to implant a will and facility for learning; it should produce not learned but learning people. The truly human society is a learning society, where grandparents, parents, and children are students together.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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In a time of drastic change it is the learners who inherit the future. The learned usually find themselves equipped to live in a world that no longer exists.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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It is loneliness that makes the loudest noise. This is true of men as of dogs.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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The end comes when we no longer talk with ourselves. It is the end of genuine thinking and the beginning of the final loneliness.The remarkable thing is that the cessation of the inner dialogue marks also the end of our concern with the world around us. It is as if we noted the world and think about it only when we have to report it to ourselves.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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It is easier to love humanity than to love your neighbor.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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We probably have a greater love for those we support than for those who support us. Our vanity carries greater weight than our self-interest.
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There is probably an element of malice in the readiness to overestimate people: we are laying up for ourselves the pleasure of later cutting them down to size.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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We have rudiments of reverence for the human body, but we consider as nothing the rape of the human mind.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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What monstrosities would walk the streets were some people's faces as unfinished as their minds.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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There is no reason why humanity cannot be served equally by weighty and trivial motives.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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Only the individual who has come to terms with his self can have a dispassionate attitude toward the world.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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In every passionate pursuit, the pursuit counts more than the object pursued.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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When the Greeks said, "Whom the gods love die young," they probably meant, as Lord Sankey suggested, that those favored by the gods stay young till the day they die; young and playful.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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The taint inherent in absolute power is not its inhumanity but its antihumanity.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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When the weak want to give an impression of strength they hint menacingly at their capacity for evil. It is by its promise of a sense of power that evil often attracts the weak.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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The less justified a man is in claiming excellence for his own self, the more ready he is to claim all excellence for his nation, his religion, his race or his holy cause.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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There are many who find the burdens, the anxiety, and the isolation of an individual existence unbearable. This is particularly true when the opportunities for self-advancement are relatively meager, and one's individual interests and prospects do not seem worth living for. Such persons sooner or later turn their backs on an individual existence and strive to acquire a sense of worth and a purpose by an identification with a holy cause, a leader, or a movement. The faith and pride they derive from such an identification serve them as substitutes for the unattainable self-confidence and self-respect.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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Thus we find that people who fail in everyday affairs show a tendency to reach out for the impossible. They become responsive to grandiose schemes, and will display unequaled steadfastness, formidable energies and a special fitness in the performance of tasks which would stump superior people. It seems paradoxical that defeat in dealing with the possible should embolden people to attempt the impossible, but a familiarity with the mentality of the weak reveals that what seems a path of daring is actually an easy way out: It is to escape the responsibility for failure that the weak so eagerly throw themselves into grandiose undertakings. For when we fail in attaining the impossible we are justified in attributing it to the magnitude of the task.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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It is part of the formidableness of a genuine mass movement that the self-sacrifice it promotes includes also a sacrifice of some of the moral sense which cramps and restrains our nature.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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Rudeness is the weak man's imitation of strength.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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Rudeness luxuriates in the absence of self-respect.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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The less satisfaction we derive from being ourselves, the greater is our desire to be like others.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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The short-lived self, teetering on the edge of extinction, is the only thing that can ever really matter.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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The capacity for getting along with our neighbor depends to a large extent on the capacity for getting along with ourselves. The self-respecting individual will try to be as tolerant of his neighbor's shortcomings as he is of his own.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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You accept certain unlovely things about yourself and manage to live with them. The atonement for such an acceptance is that you make allowances for others - that you cleanse yourself of the sin of self-righteousness.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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We can never really be prepared for that which is wholly new. We have to adjust ourselves, and every radical adjustment is a crisis in self-esteem: we undergo a test, we have to prove ourselves. It needs inordinate self-confidence to face drastic change without inner trembling.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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Self-righteousness is a manifestation of self-contempt.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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It is not love of self but hatred of self which is at the root of the troubles that afflict our world.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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Lack of sensitivity is perhaps basically an unawareness of ourselves.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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It is the acquisition of skills in particular, irrespective of their utility, that is potent in making life meaningful. Since man has no inborn skills, the survival of the species has depended on the ability to acquire and perfect skills. Hence the mastery of skills is a uniquely human activity and yields deep satisfaction.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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The weak are not a noble breed. Their sublime deeds of faith, daring, and self-sacrifice usually spring from questionable motives. The weak hate not wickedness but weakness; and one instance of their hatred of weakness is hatred of self. All the passionate pursuits of the weak are in some degree a striving to escape, blur, or disguise an unwanted self. It is a striving shot through with malice, envy, self-deception, and a host of petty impulses; yet it often culminates in superb achievements.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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Unlike the pattern which seems to prevail in the rest of life, in the human species the weak not only survive but often triumph over the strong. The self-hatred inherent in the weak unlocks energies far more formidable then those mobilized by an ordinary struggle for existence.
Topic: Psychological Subjects
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It is easier to love humanity as a whole than to love one's neighbor.
Topic: Relationships
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To the excessively fearful the chief characteristic of power is its arbitrariness. Man had to gain enormously in confidence before he could conceive an all-powerful God who obeys his own laws.
Topic: Religion / Beliefs
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