John Mordecai Gottman is a Professor emeritus in psychology known for his work on marital stability and relationship analysis through scientific direct observations many of which were published in peer-reviewed literature. The lessons derived from this work represent a partial basis for the relationship counseling movement which aim to improve relationship functioning and the avoidance of those behaviors shown by Gottman and other researchers to harm human relationships. Gottman is a Professor Emeritus of psychology at the University of Washington. With his wife Julie Schwartz, Gottman heads a non-profit research institute and a for-profit therapist training entity.
Gottman was recognized in 2007 as one of the ten most influential therapists of the past quarter century. "Gottman's research showed that it wasn't only how couples fought that mattered, but how they made up. Marriages became stable over time if couples learned to reconcile successfully after a fight."
, Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child In the last decade or so, science has discovered a tremendous amount about the role emotions play in our lives. Researchers have found that even more than IQ, your emotional awareness and abilities to handle feelings will determine your success and happiness in all walks of life, including family relationships. -John Gottman.